Oge began writing blog post in 2017 after finishing his Secondary Education at Saint Patrick's Secondary School Enugu. He attended Zhejiang University of science and technology at the department of Digital Media Technology also currently schooling at Enugu State University of science and technology (ESUT) In the department of Geology and Minning. Oge Ebube has many works in Music and he is currently writting a short novel 'Je suis Prisoner: I'm a Prisoner'.
Email: ogeebube@validnewstoday.com
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Do you remember how happy you were when the two of you first fell in love? You started things off on the right foot, and you were so in love that seemed as though nothing could ever get in the way of your being together. Then time passed and reality set in. Now you find yourself reading about saving a relationship.
Relax.
Things may seem pretty rough right now, but the fact that you are reading this proves that there is still hope. Sometimes hope is all you have, but at least it’s something that you can hold onto as you move forward. The good news is that you are going to have a plan that increases the likelihood of saving your relationship.
Step 1 – Calm down. It’s all too easy to get frazzled when you think your relationship is on the brink of disintegrating, but you need to keep your cool. Emotions can run pretty high when things aren’t going well, and that can lead to making decisions that you will only regret later. Practice meditation, prayer, and other stress-relief techniques to get some level of normality in your life.
Step 2 – Take stock. Hey, maybe things really aren’t as bad as you think they are. Maybe they’re worse. Now that you have calmed down, you can take a logical look at the true state of your relationship. Ask yourself what concrete evidence you have of trouble, and what trouble may only be imagined.
Step 3 – Dig deep. You have to get to the bottom of your problems if you are serious about saving a relationship. The reason you need to do some digging is that it is easy to confuse symptoms for causes. Arguing, for example, is rarely a cause of your problems; it’s a symptom of something else. Getting down to all of those “something elses” can be painful and time-consuming, but you need to trust that it will be worth it in the long run.
Step 4 – Talk it over. Talking to each other about all of the things you are working on is a positive step. It will show your partner that you care about staying together. It also has the benefit of getting the two of you talking about something that has a positive expectation, which can rekindle the good feelings you once had for each other.
Step 5 – Get help. You and your partner can only do so much on your own. Getting help from a relationship counselor is a good idea. They will be able to look at your relationship objectively, and then make recommendations that are based on you and your partner’s particular needs.
No matter what happens when saving a relationship, remember that there is always hope. Following the five steps listed above will help you to make things better, and to stay together. It may take some work, but the best things in life usually do.
